Dear Reb Shohama,
My husband and I are expecting a boy, and are struggling with the issue of circumcision. Our reading leads us to believe it is a barbaric and patriarchal remnant of Judaism, causing unnecessary pain to the child. Moreover, there seems to be no significant medical benefit. What can you tell me? Sincerely, Susan
Dear Susan,
I understand your dilemma. There is a body of literature that portrays circumcision in this way, and I, too, have struggled hard with this issue.